Sunday, October 23, 2011

The Walls Must Fall


Transparency. 

It is the first ingredient for confession.  You will never win at life if you play with a poker face.  

Linus, the life coach, taught me that much.  

Come to the wall.  

Whatever wall blocks you from moving forward.  


The wall has pent up all my dreams.  

I hear them, there, bantering on the other side.  

So I come to the wall.  I shout to the wall.  I say to the wall, "Hey, I'm here. I'm not hiding anymore.  Hey, I'm here: vulnerable, powerless, angry.  Hey, did you hear me?  I'm calling you out, wall.  I'm not leaving.  I'm not running. I hate this wall.  I want it down."  

I am marking my territory.  My shouts provide echo-location for the source of my angst.  Everyone will know: that I have a wall, that I hate this wall, that I cannot break it down.  

You can't embarrass a wall down.  

You can't harass a wall to crumbling.  

I can be honest.  
       I can be transparent.  
                I can find the strength that is hidden in weakness. 

My confession, made public, becomes our confession.  

Nehemiah, the Hebrew governor-prophet, profoundly proclaimed to the persecuted people rebuilding the walls of Jerusalem:




One voice that calls many.  

I am one voice.  
I am many voices.  

Accountability is fraternity.  

In numbers...numbers that rally to my cry...numbers that march beside a wall...numbers that shout with shared frustration at a thing that will not move...that keeps me...keeps us...from the grand things waiting on the other side...

When masses march 
                        and shout 
                                  walls fall.  

Such movements begin
                    and only begin
with a face 
       easily read 
by others 
       standing by
the same wall.

Saturday, October 22, 2011

Friend to the Friendless

Strange.  Humility and kindness are inexplicably welded to being characteristically stupid and gullible.  It could be that whole brain people (those who adequately use both left and right sides regularly) pity the stray dog behavior of others. Perhaps Linus operates above the circumstance.  


Linus knows that the wild dogs of life are as likely to snatch his hand as the chunk of ham he offers the shivering mongrel.  But the complexity at work in his brain suggests to him that the most base and vulgar creature needs care and companionship.


If not he, then who?


Haughtiness is absent in Linus.  His actions are reactions.  Impulsion is driven by this deeply entrenched value.  This is the quality of sainthood.  Mere mortals can be motivated to charitable deeds and good works by substantial tax credit or monuments named in their honor.  Nice guy actions are currency in the open market of public relations.  


Linus doesn't need good karma.  Karma hasn't worked, as a principle, for him-- ever.  Only Mother Theresa had more good karma stored in the cloud.  Neither of them were showered with brilliant blasts of good things.  Both of them found good in the wretched, wicked things of life.  Both of them believed that mere actuality qualified one to be the recipient of kindness and sincere company.


 Linus makes friends of enemies because Linus neither covets what another has nor has any cause to slander.  Nor does Linus hold on to anything any one would want to take by force.  Linus has no nemesis.  He is only surrounded by those who are convinced he is hiding some icon...some token...some charm that wards away anger and chaos; pettiness and contention.  Maybe it's that baby blue blanket...  


They try.  They try with clever schemes and ninja beagles.  They try with parental authority and peer pressure.  Linus, they are sure, would be nothing without his blanket...his Orthodox icon...his Lutheran cross...his Catholic rosary...his religious-like crutch.  Deprived of his blanket surely Linus will be mortal like us...able to bleed; and bleeding to feel pain; and in feeling pain to strike back...bite back against his enemies and those who take advantage of his good nature and good intentions.


But Linus does not bite. 


Linus pities.


Linus cries for the both the bleeding hand and the shivering dog who has taken the ham and run.  


Linus: friend to the friendless, will be at the gate tomorrow with a piece of ham in his bandaged hand.


An autumn gust blasts as Lucy shouts something inside the house.  As both die down, Linus shivers.  His expectant eyes narrow, focusing on the litter strewn alley, and the flash of fur that stops and meets his stare.  Confused, it tilts its head to one side.  Stupid round headed boy, it thinks. So gullible.


For some, it is hard to understand humility and kindness.  They can be looking right at it and still be incapable of making sense of what they see.  It would seem that the more "perfect" something is, the more difficult it becomes to see it for what it is. 


How well do you trust your mind to correctly interpret what is so clear and obvious right in front of you?  



Monday, October 17, 2011

Linus knows the secrets of the successful leader...


Linus is a natural when it comes to leadership.  Kara Ohngren's article in Entrepreneur captures in summary those qualities I learned from watching Linus closely.  The principles are simple: make others feel important & empower the strengths of the entire team.  



10 Secrets of Successful Leaders

10 Secrets of Successful Leaders
Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “A good leader inspires people to have confidence in the leader, a great leader inspires people to have confidence in themselves.” But, becoming a great leader isn’t easy. Successfully maneuvering a team through the ups and downs of starting a new business can be one of the greatest challenges a small-business owner faces.
Leadership is one of the areas that many entrepreneurs tend to overlook, according leadership coach John C. Maxwell, whose books include The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership (Thomas Nelson, 1998) and Developing the Leader Within You (Thomas Nelson, 1993).
“You work hard to develop your product or service. You fight to solve your financial issues. You go out and promote your business and sell your product. But you don't think enough about leading your own people and finding the best staff,” Maxwell says.
It turns out, the skills and talents necessary to guide your team in the right direction can be simple, and anyone with the determination can develop them. Here’s a list of 10 tips drawn from the secrets of successful leaders.
1. Assemble a dedicated team. 
Your team needs to be committed to you and the business. Successful entrepreneurs have not only social and selling smarts, but also the know-how to hire effectively, says leadership trainer Harvey Mackay, who wrote Swim with the Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive (Ivy Books, 1995). “A colossal business idea simply isn't enough. You have to be able to identify, attract and retain talent who can turn your concept into a register-ringing success,” he says.

When putting your team together, look for people whose values are aligned with the purpose and mission of your company. Suzanne Bates, a Wellesley, Mass.-based leadership consultant and author of Speak Like a CEO (McGraw Hill, 2005), says her team members rallied around each other during the worst part of the recession because they all believed in what they were doing. “Having people on your team who have tenacity and a candid spirit is really important," she says.
2. Overcommunicate. 
This one’s a biggie. Even with a staff of only five or 10, it can be tough to know what’s going on with everyone. In an effort to overcommunicate, Bates compiles a weekly news update she calls a Friday Forecast, and emails it to her staff. “My team is always surprised at all the good news I send out each week,” Bates says. “It makes everyone feel like you really have a lot of momentum, even in difficult times.”
3. Don’t assume.
When you run a small business, you might assume your team understands your goals and mission -- and they may. But, everybody needs to be reminded of where the company’s going and what things will look like when you get there. Your employees may ask, “What’s in it for me?” It’s important to paint that picture for your team. Take the time to really understand the people who are helping you build your business.
“Entrepreneurs have the vision, the energy, and they’re out there trying to make it happen. But, so often with their staff, they are assuming too much,” says Beverly Flaxington, founder of The Collaborative, a business-advising company in Medfield, Mass. “It’s almost like they think their enthusiasm by extension will be infectious -- but it’s not. You have to bring people into your world and communicate really proactively.”
4. Be authentic.
Good leaders instill their personality and beliefs into the fabric of their organization, Flaxington says. If you be yourself, and not try to act like someone else, and surround yourself with people who are aligned with your values, your business is more likely to succeed, she says.

“Every business is different and every entrepreneur has her own personality,” Flaxington says. “If you’re authentic, you attract the right people to your organization -- employees and customers.”
5. Know your obstacles.
Most entrepreneurs are optimistic and certain that they’re driving toward their goals. But, Flaxington says, it’s a short-sighted leader who doesn’t take the time to understand his obstacles.
“You need to know what you’re up against and be able to plan around those things,” she says. “It’s folly to think that just because you’ve got this energy and enthusiasm that you’re going to be able to conquer all. It’s much smarter to take a step back and figure out what your obstacles are, so the plan that you’re putting into place takes that into account.”
6. Create a 'team charter.'
Too many new teams race down the road before they even figure out who they are, where they’re going, and what will guide their journey, says Ken Blanchard, co-author of The One-Minute Manager (William Morrow & Co., 1982) and founder of The Ken Blanchard Cos., a workplace- and leadership-training firm. Just calling together a team and giving them a clear charge does not mean the team will succeed.
“It’s important to create a set of agreements that clearly states what the team is to accomplish, why it is important and how the team will work together to achieve the desired results,” says Blanchard, who is based in Escondido, Calif. “The charter provides a record of common agreements and can be modified as the business grows and the team’s needs change.”
7. Believe in your people. 
Entrepreneurial leaders must help their people develop confidence, especially during tough times. As Napoleon Bonaparte said, "Leaders are dealers in hope." That confidence comes in part from believing in your team, says Maxwell, who is based in West Palm Beach, Fla. “I think of my people as 10s, I treat them like 10s, and as a result, they try to perform like 10s,” he says. “But believing in people alone isn't enough. You have to help them win.”
8. Dole out credit.
Mackay says a good salesperson knows what the sweetest sound in the world is: The sound of their name on someone else's lips. But too many entrepreneurs think it's either the crinkle of freshly minted currency, or the dull thud of a competitor's body hitting the pavement.
“Many entrepreneurs are too in love with their own ideas and don't know how to distribute credit,” Mackay says. “A good quarterback always gives props to his offensive line.”
9. Keep your team engaged. 
Great leaders give their teams challenges and get them excited about them, says leadership expert Stephen Covey, author of The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People (Free Press, 1989). He pointed to the example of a small pizza shop in a moderate-sized town that was killing a big fast-food chain in sales. The big difference between the chain and the small pizza joint was the leader, he says.
Every week he gathered his teenage employees in a huddle and excitedly asked them: “What can we do this week that we’ve never done before?” The kids loved the challenge. They started texting all their friends whenever a pizza special was on. They took the credit-card machine to the curb so passing motorists could buy pizza right off the street. They loaded up a truck with hot pizzas and sold them at high-school games. The money poured in and the store owner never had problems with employee turnover, says Covey, who is based in Salt Lake City, Utah.
10. Stay calm.
An entrepreneur has to backstop the team from overreacting to short-term situations, says Mackay, who is based in Minneapolis. This is particularly important now, when news of the sour economic environment is everywhere.
“The media has been hanging black crepe paper since 2008,” he says. “But look at all the phenomenal companies and brands that were born in downturns, names like iPod, GE and Federal Express.”

 

Saturday, October 15, 2011

The Security of Insecurity

Wiser people than Linus Van Pelt have roamed the earth.  Still, profundity per capita considered, Linus ranks highly among the definitive sages under sixteen.  While Charles Schulz allowed him to outgrow the marvelous, blue blanket, his expansive need for it is useful to me even now.


There is a wisdom in insecurity.  There is a security that creeps out from insecurity.  There is a powerful claim being made in the embrace of the silent blue guardian.  


Blue blankets blazon that change is sudden and near.  Blue blankets are more subtle than street corner prophets and their cardboard declarations of doom.  More subtle, but no less fatalistic.  Suffering is immanent.  Danger lurks.  Trust is a highly inflated currency created and disbursed with little to no collateral.  


Linus knows something about the actuality and certainty of suffering:
Kids at camp will mock him.  
Sally will stalk him. 
Lucy will pound him and throw him out of his own home.  
Snoopy will rob him.  
The girl who sits behind him will reject him.  


There is something remarkably comforting about certainty.


It is precisely the presence of a blue blanket that makes Linus
a voice to be heard.


It says he has his eyes opened to the messy menagerie of life moments exploding all around him.


Charlie Brown will never get it...the football that is...because, well, Charlie Brown will never get it.


Lucy might help us with some pop psychology worthy of a spot on Oprah's new network...
but in the end you and I are just another nickel in her mind.


Schroeder's lost in the arts -- out picketing budget cuts for after school programs
and for all the love of Snoopy, he just can't get out of the past -- still fighting yesteryear's front page public enemies.


Linus is our only hope.


The security of his insecurity has led Linus to a fascinating philosophy toward life.  It has equipped him with three powerful charms that ward off the bad ju-ju of the impending epic fail lurking behind and looming overhead and laying traps just ahead.  


Linus has FAITH:  something to believe in that heals his life.


Linus has HOPE:  something to look forward to that makes today tolerable.


Linus has LOVE:  something to do that makes the first two happen in someone else's life.


And though all the other spiritual gifts named in the Christian Bible are, in those pages, predicted to fail in time, these three remain...because suffering remains.  And so long as there is suffering these co-exist to be a response, a deep inner reconciliation, to the problem of pain.  This is the security found in insecurity: there is plenty to fear.  And when what we fear most happens, those three seeds of wisdom are plowed deep in sacred soil.







The only thing there is to fear is...


A rabid bat tangled in a toddler's hair?
http://www.ky3.com/news/ktla-rabid-bat-in-hair,0,2205072.story


friends like these?
http://www.ky3.com/news/kdvr-two-men-accused-of-partying-with-dead-friend-20110915,0,2635207.story


swamp monsters!
http://www.ky3.com/news/wpix-monster-crocodile-caught,0,5255740.story


Another SAW sequel?
http://www.ky3.com/news/ktla-glendale-hernia-butter-knife,0,6898818.story


Gumby???
http://www.ky3.com/news/ktla-gumby-robs-convenience-store,0,6543594.story







Friday, October 7, 2011

Linus has the X Factor

One thing about Linus: he has a remarkable singing voice.  It would only make sense that Linus pays homage  to the Police at the P.Nutz Club on karaoke night. The Police are eclectic, like Linus, influenced by punk, reggae and jazz.  Literate and informed, Linus digs any band that can pull off pop stardom while streaming the likes of Carl Jung and Arthur Koestler.  


Herein is Linus's charm.  Disarming, his non-threatening persona is equally equipped to challenge everything from misinformed mythologies to abnormal psychology.  He is a theologian and a philosopher; an investigative scientist and a poet.  


And when the days grow short and the air crisps with chill, Linus dons his blue cloak and ski cap for a long stroll to breathe deep the hushing sounds of industry and the rushing wisp of October's exhales.  Schizophrenic sidewalks scroll under his feet; aging grays and cobbled brick and asphalt scars tell the story of city founders and boom and bust; harsh winters and neglect and taken-for-grantedness flickering like a nickelodeon show.  


And when the sidewalk's story wheezes to an end, Linus looks up to find himself standing outside the P.Nutz.  The walls rattle to the revelry inside.  Voices rush together: orchestral tuning to an oboe's happy "A".


Inside, Linus waits patiently at his table for his chance.  He sings the Police.  That is no surprise. But who does Linus sing of when he coos "every little thing she does is magic..."?  


One more "x factor" in Linus's long list of charms:  a man of mystery.  No wonder Sally is so smitten.


http://youtu.be/6AvBL2Mx2xA